Age Play: From the Sandbox to the Bedroom

Explore the emotional, mental and physical aspects of this very charged type of play. The discussion will address an age range from 6 to 16 years of age. Sexual and non-sexual forms of play will be discussed, as well as the attendant roles of those who play with "children." Meet each persona and learn how they were "born", who they are, who they play with and why. This class in no way advocates pediphilia. This is a class based on fantasy role play only.

Anal Sex: The Other Penetrative Pleasure

Explore the many infinite possibilities of anal sex. Catherine will discuss types of lube, physiology, gender differences, safety concerns and your options for anal pleasure of all types. Come learn everything you need to explore.

Anatomy of Pain

As tops we need to know the body beyond the normative class outlining joints and muscles. As bottoms, you need to have this information to give informed consent. Want to know why players decades ago were able to play in dark spaces without good lighting? This workshop is presented from top/bottom perspectives. Learn about taking and creating pain from the top, bottom, emotional, psychological and physical perspectives. We'll explore reading your bottoms more accurately, pain for masochists and non-masochists. This class is for tops, bottoms, experienced players and novices. Come get a deep foundation to foster hurt, not harm, in your scenes.

Anticipatory Service: The Automatic Response

How does one teach Anticipatory Service? How many years in service does it take to be able to be competent in this area? We will address these questions and the following: a) habitual patterns; b) teaching obedience; c) repetition and simplistic orders; d) managing your tasks for your house; e) What happens when you have anticipated well and feel as if you are simply doing the work without getting the dominance?; f) self satisfaction vs. needing a pay off; and g) realism vs. fantasy. We'll also cover how one begins to piece together the ability to anticipate service needs.(lecture, roundtable)

Anything and Everything!

This is one of my favorite classes-- it\'s an open forum where you can ask anything you like. It could be questions regarding how to use a toy, a particular skillset, bondage, D/s or M/s related, details of service, relationships, structures, history-- you name it, we\'ll talk about it!

Basic Caning

Discuss different types of canes, how canes are made, how to cane, where to cane, what the possibilities of cane created sensation are, cane seduction, hand placement for types of strokes, using multiple canes, types of cane strokes, how to care for canes, options for cane delivery, traditional caning, warm-up vs straight caning, buttocks compression, and more. (lecture, demo)

BDSM and boys

What does it mean to be a boy? How do service, SM and gender relate to play? How can BDSM be a means of gender discovery? How does one play with boys who have body related issues? How has the boy movement shifted and changed? How did it start? Please join this interactive forum and bring all your questions and share your experiences.

BDSM: A Perspective on Sexual Power

Catherine will address how women choose to come to power through their BDSM sexuality. This overview will cover the nuts and bolts of what BDSM is, the power of fantasy play, sex workers and how these notions fit into ideas of sexual freedom, self-empowerment and feminism. She will discuss the physicality which predisposes some to this type of play and mental aspects of having the freedom to explore every part of who you are as a sexual being. Heavy on theory and feminist content. (Lecture, roundtable)

BDSM: Gender and boys

This class will address female born boys (yes, that's the same as boi's. How does BDSM relate to gender? Who is a female born boy? Catherine will discuss accepting ones body, integrating gender play into BDSM, specific types of play that relate to boys in particular, public play, transgender issues and other ABC's of boys. (Lecture, roundtable)

BDSM: Healing & Feminine Sexual Power

We will discuss how BDSM has affected our lives as sexual beings. How has it aided in re-shaping our body image? Has it allowed our sexual expression to move beyond the social mores of acceptable feminine sexuality and into the expression we personally need? Has BDSM been a healing force in our lives? Can it be a healing force and if so how? (Lecture, roundtable)

Beyond the Stick: Advanced Piercing

Explore a gallery of possibilities! It's a show and tell of decorative piercing, chain maile zippers (inverted and extroverted), stressed simultaneous zippers, reins, non-repeating zippers, fishing line corsetry, tegaderm zippers, single tails and piercing, lacing, weighting systems, multiple layer piercing, and much more! Expect to discuss creativity, innovation, and incredible connection opportunities which could be formative in meaningful relationships.

Blacking: It's more than a little shine

This boot blacking class is meant to give participants a foundation on which to build up to their own desired skill levels. Class discussion will include such topics as: a) items found in boot black kits; b) cleaning; c) types of polishes and their purposes; d) types of leather; e) repair; f) D/s and boot blacking. Please join me in exploring the art of boot blacking! (can be hands-on, handout)

Body Evaluation: Use Flails without pain

Learn how to improve your skill level and change your technique so your wrist, arm, shoulder or back doesn't pay the price for your play. Or perhaps you already experience some pain while using your flails? This class will give each person one on one instruction and it will be tailor-made to your particular style. Save your shoulders and arms now. This class is also for the simple improvement of the strokes you currently use. (hands-on instruction)

Boot Worship: The Sole of Sex

Boot worship is a highly diverse activity. It can be about D/s, sex, bondage, done as a top or a bottom and be one of the hottest, sexiest activities you'll ever engage in. This class will discuss: a) types of boots; b) boot licking; c) deep throating heels; d) views from the Top and the bottom; e) techniques of boot licking from the bottom; f) managing a boot licker as a top; g) heels vs. toes; h) boot humping; i) boot worship as a top or bottom; h) CBT; and i) boot worship as sex.

Boys: Tricks of the Trade

Who is a boy? What are boys like? What are the tricks of the trade to be a useful boy? This class will focus on boys in general and discuss service as well. We will discuss: a) what every boy should carry; b) flagging; c) leathers; d) mentoring; e) boys clubs and training camps; f) choice in verbiage (first person vs third); and g) packing options for boys.

Breast and Chest Torture

Use duct tape to make corsets, rope bondage, dental floss, temperature, clips, clamps, zippers, velcro, abrasion, clothespins, zippers, slapping, flogging, and more to create sensation, bondage and a myriad of experiences with this oh so usable part of the body. Learn how to do deal with cystic breasts and safety aspects. (Demo, lecture)

Chemical Play: Is that legal?

Go green with your play! Explore the wide world of sensation creating nastiness organically. There is a wide array of alternatives open to you to create sensation and memorable moments to last a lifetime. Come try a few new things and see just how fun organic play may be. Who says chemicals and SM do not mix!

Clips, Clamps and Clothespins

How to judge these implements. How these implements function with the body and create sensation. How to use a variety of them, what they do, how to control sensation, where to use them, variations of theme including predicament bondage, period of time to play, zippers and more! (lecture, demo, discussion) [Can be made to be hands-on]

Communication: Do you have this?

No, really. Do YOU have this? Do you feel seen? Do you feel heard? Do you feel known? Are you forthright in what you say about yourself? Are you showing up in your relationships? This is a focused, interactive discussion that gets into the meat of productive communication. Expect this class to be as deep and meaningful as you are willing to be. We will dissolve some of the difficulty which may be preventing your greatest satisfaction and your most productive means personal power. (This is not a 101 class. Minimum 1.5 hours)

Concentric Consumption or Vitality?

How many skills have you learned? How many skills do you believe you may need to learn? Our young community has developed a social context and knowledge management schemata which may come with emotional hazards. We're going to explore the darker side of our need to learn, our pursuit of better, best, more, to the detriment of ourselves and our relationships. Are we concentrically consumed or fully exploring vitality?

Cornerstones: Beginnings, Middles and the End

We'll focus on relationship patterns in the beginning, middle and the end of relationships. We'll discuss the difference between care-taking and taking care, illusion vs reality, personal responsibility, boundaries, owning who you are, getting what you want, dealing with mistakes and being able to separate between yours, mine and ours. End your relationships as well as you begin them. Understanding the stages of relationships will help you stay in the middle, isn't that the goal after all? Join this intimate discussion regardless of what stage you are in-- this is for coupled and single people alike.

Couples Zen: Merge & Meditate

This is a hands-on experiential class for couples (or other relational configurations). Exercises will be interactive. We will be creating connection, openness, and bonding. We will promote mutual compassion, sensual awareness, physical, and emotional intimacy. Start your day awakening your body, your mind, your emotions, and your desire! This class is where we do the bonding-- not just talk about it! Please bring a small towel with you and wear comfortable clothes. (This class is taught with members of my family as I need a specific type of demo-ee for this class) (There is a version of this which is designed for D/s or M/s pairings also.)

Creating, Keeping and Living in a Family

Leather families take many forms. We'll discuss what works, what doesn't, and how families are formed. Families shift, change and become something new over time. We have our first family and are born into it-- when you deliberately create a family the concerns and contributions are different. Come explore the infinite possibilities of forming families.

Cuttings: Body Art

This class teaches how to cut, where to cut, using different types of scalpels, scarifications/permanency techniques. How each layer of skin creates different sensation. Dealing with blood, bleeding, disease, design and being prepared. Please email Catherine's assistant for the particular needs of this class.(lecture, demo, handout- can also be a hands on class)

Cuttings: Carving with Meaning

This class teaches how to cut, where to cut, using different types of scalpels, scarification and permanency techniques. Learn how each layer of skin creates different sensation. Dealing with blood, bleeding, disease, design and being prepared. Please be prepared to witness and take part in a very personal ritual. This ritual will not require you to be cut or to cut, you are invited to be part of a creation. If ritual, connection and opening up interest you-- don't miss this class.

Cuttings: Experience and Education

Join this hands-on class to solidify your cutting skills. You will have instruction from Catherine Gross and Jack (experienced cutter of 12 years). This class teaches how to cut, where to cut, using different types of scalpels, scarifications/permanency techniques. It will cover sensation, skin layers and dealing with blood, bleeding, disease, design and being fully prepared. The class is designed to train your hands and your mind. This is a hands-on class and extremely limited in size. Expect to receive individual attention for maximum learning. The class will last 3 to 3.5 hours. Only six spots are available so register soon. Most of the supplies for this class will be provided. We are asking attendees to bring items to keep the cost low. These items are easily purchased at local stores and will not be expensive. Items will be assigned once class is sold out. There will be a PowerPoint, handouts, and supplies for class.

D/s Roundtable I

This session is :30 of lecture regarding a Tops D/s Skills. The lecture will cover issues such as clarity, boundaries, management, protocols, decision-making, responsibilities and ownership. Then this workshop will open up to be a roundtable discussion of the issues regarding D/s from a tops perspective. Bottoms are welcome to participate as well. (Lecture, roundtable)

D/s Roundtable II

This session is :30 of lecture regarding a submissives D/s Skills. The lecture will cover issues such as clarity, boundaries, management, protocols, decision-making, responsibilities and ownership. Then this workshop will open up to be a roundtable discussion of the issues regarding D/s from a submissives perspective. Tops are welcome to participate as well. (Lecture, roundtable)

Dominance & submission

What is this? Why do people play with this? How to manage dominance with a 24/7 continuum. How dominance and submission interact with sadism and masochism. Learn to integrate it into every aspect of your life and how to keep it separate. Explore that no concept is mutually exclusive. This is a class geared towards those new to D/s. (lecture and round table)

Dominance and Training without Physical Punishment

Explore the concepts of punishment. Discussion will include: a) concepts of how one molds another without physical punishment; b) creating devotion, trust, self-rewarding behavior; c)progressive learning; d) confidence; 5) independence; and 6) self-perpetuated notions of powerful bottoms.

Domo: The Singular Service

This class will discuss: a) what a domo does; b) their many skill sets; c) how to keep a paper trial to ease your duties; d) organization; e) boundaries & duties; f) the practical concerns of service; and g) practical day in and day out house management. A domo's life differs from many other types of servant. Learn various skill sets to improve your service, understanding and tips to be more efficient. This is an extremely detailed class and not for the faint of service.

Emotional Edge Play: Playing Safely with Trauma

Learn how to play with emotional trauma. Why would someone play with trauma? How does one use past events that caused trauma or induce a high emotional state/feeling and use it effectively and wisely with a scene? What are the goals of this type of play? Who is a good candidate for this type of play? How do you deal with mistakes? Learn how to use trauma for catharsis without becoming someone's therapist. (lecture, discussion)

Emotional Fidelity

Dictionary.com defines fidelity as strict observance of promises, duties, etc.: a servant's fidelity. Fidelity is not for servants only-- it's for relationships of all types and sizes. Lady Catherine explores the creation of secret spaces that foster fidelity. How does emotional fidelity operate? Why is it important? What difference will that make in my relationship? This is not a simple discussion of polyamorous relations. Discover emotional fidelity as a new relationship frontier.

Face It!

Want to play with someone's face? We will discuss facial slapping and punching in depth, head locks, the physiology of the head and neck area, some forms of breath deprivation, forms of sensory deprivation, various forms of head bondage using stocks, dental floss, rope and mummification.

Faith: Masters lead the way

Master, will you step off the edge? Will you place full faith in your slave, Master? Explore the faith of a Master, from creation to completion as a component of advanced mastery. Examine this possible path for seasoned relationships in their fourth or fifth year. The payoffs of this transition generate raw emotion, stretch the M/s bond, deepen devotion, and create a deliberately interdependent dynamic. This class is ideally for Masters and slaves who have between three to six years of continuous relationship experience.

Family Trees: How Are We Growing M/s Families?

We're going to explore how we are forming forming families. Are our families based on community? Personal ties only? Perhaps they are based on a common goal? How are we forming intimate groups, what is the point and purpose of forming these groups? What do familial structures provide is? Does the needed end result dictate the design? Do these structures fit for biological families? Are we incorporating these structures into our lives as a whole? Let's do some construction and deconstruction and go deep! Bring graphs of your family diagrams (or not) and let's explore the possibilities!

Fisting

How to fist, the safety of fisting, working your way in, anal vs vaginal fisting, and double handed fisting. We'll explore this intimate activity fully. (demo if possible, lecture, handouts)

Flails and the Floggers who Use Them

Learn how to choose well made floggers, which one is right for you, where to flog and not flog. How does one use a metal flail, how does one create sting vs. thud, and how to build your bruise. Learn how to flog no-no areas, power hitting vs dusting, how to protect your body as a flogger and not damage your arms or shoulders. How to flog when you already have arm/shoulder/back injuries.(lecture, demo and hand outs)

Foot & Shoe Worship

This class will discuss: a) types of shoes; b) types of feet that attract; c) varied head spaces; d) foot games (breath deprivation, trampling, kicking) e) foot & toe bondage; f) licking, sucking and biting; g) humping, fucking; h) pinching and CBT options; i) types of shoes; j) shoe bondage; k) shoe and heel worship. Come explore this highly versatile form of play! You are only limited by your imagination!

Formal Dining Service: Essential Service

Many people believe it's not necessary to know how to set a table, how to serve a meal or which fork to use. These skills sets allow you to be efficient when serving your Top. These skills will provide you with a knowledge of tables, wine, and service in all types of situations beyond the dining experience. We will cover how to keep food warm, a full place social vs. restaurant setting, how tables dictate a setting, how to serve, how to set a tone, linens, centerpieces, silver, dealing with candles, stains and more. (Lecture, demo and booklet)

From Sexual Trauma to Health

Sexual injury can be a very isolating experience. Many people who have sustained sexual injury believe that others don't understand the impact or how it changes them. We're going to discuss types of abuse, the myriad of complications abuse brings to personal sexuality and relationships, and recovery. Confidentiality and safety will be established for this potential trigger class. This is for those who experience trauma and their partner(s). (This class will be adjusted per venue to include BDSM, D/s or M/s as applicable.)

Genderfucks, Packing and Good Sex

Come learn and discuss genderfucks. I will address femme dick and butch cock. What are your options for packing and fucking? What is the difference between a dildo and butch cock? What is the mentality of packing and including this as an intricate part of your sexuality? Learn how to place your cock well, the options for placement and how to cum with your new body part. You never know what this class might hold-- on one occasion when I gave this class my own family didn't recognize me. Come join me for a surprise or two!(lecture, demo if possible)

Genitorture

Creating weight systems, temp clit rings, using constant motion, abrasive material, cold, heat, cavity waxing, clamps, clips, stretching, clothespins, chains and dealing with perm piercing. Learn how the shape of the woman dictates the type of genitorture you may choose. This is a very broad area that is only limited by your imagination. (lecture, demo, powerpoint and handouts)

Hands-on Basic Caning

Discuss different types of canes, how to cane, where to cane, what the possibilities of cane created sensation are, cane seduction, hand placement for types of strokes, delivery and warm up. This is one on one instruction in the art of caning.

Hands-on Caning: Basic to Advanced

This is a hands on class, geared towards building skills and/or learning new ones. The class will be broken up in two segments. In the first segment, Catherine will discuss types of canes, prepping your bottom vs. no prep, "proper" cane strokes, English caning (sets of six), tipping techniques, varied cane strokes, care of your bottom, developing bruises vs cane lines, proper breathing for bottoms and care of your canes. Segment two is completely hands on and participatory. You will learn various grips and how to do the different types of strokes. You will have one on one access to Catherine and any help she may provide you to further develop your skills. Please bring with you: 1 pillow, 1 towel and canes if you have them. Class is 3 hours.

Hands-on Toy Bonanza: Learn it all!

Do you have a toy in your bag which you're not sure how to use? Or perhaps an item laying around your house that you've looked at a few times and wondered if you can pervert it? Or perhaps you'd simply like to improve some of your existing skills? Then this is the workshop for you! Bring your toy bag and questions, a bring a bottom if you have one, and we'll learn hands-on how to use anything and everything. Lady Catherine will also bring a few surprises of her own!

Happiness and M/s Relationships

Want happy, lasting Master/slave relationships that allow you to expand who you are? Looking for ways to improve your happiness each day? This class is based on research, surveys and accepted models to buff your happiness quotient as individuals and interdependent pairings. We are going to examine the components of happiness, how to get there, and how to stay blissed out to lead a fulfilled M/s life.

Hierarchical Structures: More than girls, boys and slaves

This class will explore hierarchical structures and the possible stations for a service structure. We will discuss each station, their particular and specific responsibilities, how to tailor-make your stations, and where these stations came from within historical structures. As well as titles, responsibilities and earning your title level. Come explore the components of successful dominant/submissive service oriented relationships, the pitfalls to avoid and how to structure relationships between more than two people that work for everyone. This class addresses how to handle polyamoury through providing specific and particular stations for each participating member.(lecture, hand outs, discussion)

Hospitals, Illness and your best M/s Relationship (new!)

We know serious illness, hospitalization(s), and/or chronic illness is possible. If that happened in your house tomorrow, are you ready? How do you empower your slave when youâ€™re ill and not lose your authority? How do you ensure the continuance of dynamic if your slave is ill and the master must fill in or permanently take over? Why have we become so short sighted that a change in health panics us and occasionally is seen as a threat to the relationship? Build better relationships now so illness, hospitalization, and shifts in our humanity are just another stage of M/s and not a deal breaker emotionally, physically, spiritually and dynamically.

Intermediate Piercing: Hands-On Learning

This class is meant to teach in a hands on fashion the following skills: lacings, caning and piercing, rein design, simple weighting systems, decorative piercing, dental floss usage, waxing and piercing. Everyone in this class is either piercing or being pierced to learn these skills in a hands on manner. (lecture/ hands on learning, students supplied with needed items)

Intermediate Piercing: Options Galore

Using the different skin layers to produce sensation deliberately. Beads, decorations, feathers, simple lacing, designs, waxing, cigarettes, incense, reins, vibrators, simple weights, variations on flavored floss, alcohol, removal techniques, clothespins, clamps, using pressure and height. Learn to utilize this large variety of sensation creating techniques. (demo/lecture)

Interrogations: Mind, Body and Persuasion

How do you set the tone for a progressive scene which accomplishes your end goal? We will explore language selection, vocal tones, and possible resources to create a firm advantage. Crawl into and through the mind of your bottom so you can hold them firmly within a well controlled space. Explore the methodology to create and manipulate power dynamics through your environment, body control, and an evolving plan. Come and indulge in this most fascinating and intricately created play. (lecture, handouts and take home surprise!)

Keeping your Space: Submission

Have you had trouble keeping your submission and service going? This class will discuss using ritual, protocols, boundaries, education and self knowledge to aid your ability to continue to serve at a level of excellence. We will discuss service as a subset of self, being self-motivating, setting goals within your service and maintaining your space emotionally and physically. (Lecture, roundtable)

Learning Mastery from your slave

When a slave has more experience than their Master or Mistress, how can they educate their owner while maintaining their role with respect, integrity, and obedience? Catherine Gross will address the many questions and specific issues regarding this time-honored system that enables experienced slaves to provide useful knowledge to their owners without ever "topping from the bottom."

Leather: Is it what you think it is?

Let's explore a long road of options of what leather may be for you, for others and historically. Don't expect this to be a one way-ism or definition based class. We're going to look at components to carve out unique possibilities. Leather has several paths- let's investigate. Join this class to refine your thinking and participate in the creative process of considering leather.

Leatherwomen: Recognition, Impact, Measures of Success

We're going to explore leather culture and consider what a modernized, culturally conscious model might look like that fosters benefit for all. Anyone who feels they have a place in an inclusive womens/womxn community welcome. Allies are also welcome but we will focus on the voices of women.

Lifetime Bonding: After the Ceremonies

We have ceremonies, rituals, collars, rings and keys. What is available after we have done the ceremonies and accepted the collars? What now? How do we create milestones and mark the events when we do not have the language or a framework that tells us what the next stage may be? What is the next relationship goal we are seeking? Explore the unwritten path and possibilities.

Living the Life: 24/7 Dominance/submission

How does this work within a modern world? How can one meet the demands of a Master/Mistress? What is realistic and what isn't? How have successful relationships in the past been structured? How does one train within the confines of reality? How does one (from each perspective) integrate needs, wants, boundaries and desires into a workable daily routine? (lecture, round table, class exercise if meant to be hands on and add one hour)

Longevity: Independence & Interdependence

How do we protect individuality within M/s without breaking down the Master/slave dynamic in long term relationships? We deliberately create relationships where we are dependent upon one another. We form relationships where permission (granted or received) and a clearly decided division of task or duties are an everyday occurrence. When we grow together as a tightly formed unit what are the future repercussions of living M/s? If we are a tightly formed unit how have we insured that both Masters and slaves are able to function beautifully and not create co-dependence. We will have a lively discussion to foster healthy long-term M/s relationships which also render individual health.

M/s & Marriage & Love

Is marriage an act of gaining legal benefits for M/s couples? Is there another reason why we marry? Is marriage a way of mixing an in love relationship with Master/slave dynamics? Does being in love detract from M/s relationships? Does being in love add to the potential for surrender? Doe the issue of being in love divide us as a community? Is there a difference that is significant and important in a relationship which does not involve in love feelings and one that does include those emotions? Does being in love complicate the landscape of the relationship? Explore these possibilities and find out why this discussion is much debated. Expect this to be fully interactive.

M/s and D/s Conversations

Join me for an intimate, engaged conversation on M/s and D/s relationships. Come play with the concepts and notions which move beyond the first few years of settling into the relationship. We will engage each other sharing our collective wisdom. We will address a framework of a multitude of subjects. Do not expect the same protocol, structure and authority conversation. This conversation is for those who have been, or currently are, in a Master/slave or Dominant/submissive relationship. Suggested experience is an on-going dynamic within one sustained relationship for at least three years. This class can be 1.5 hours up to 3 hours.

M/s: Realities Round Table

Lady Catherine will host this discussion about M/s relationships. We will get in the trenches with you about what is difficult, particular and takes effort. This is meant to be a vulnerable discussion to create solutions to making our relationships solid and workable.

Managing Service I

This class will discuss how one begins to manage potential property. It will cover the following subjects: a) continuing interviews; b) setting protocols; c) dealing with limits and mutual boundaries; d) time management as you don't live together; e) beginning exercises for learning; f) progressively advancing your relationship; g) creating a foundation for a deeper relationship down the road; and h) mixing play and service. These are the basics for cultivating happy, useful servants/bottoms.

Managing Service II

Once you're past the initial stages of ownership how does one manage those who serve well day in and day out? How do we create D/s relationships that last and are satisfying? This class will discuss: a) managing live-in service; b) managing those who do not live with you; c) maintaining protocols; d) educating and maintaining a balanced server; d) raising the bar in your relationship; e) correction, punishment and reward; and f) keeping your play alive.

Manners & Etiquette: A Victorian Approach

How do the Victorian ideals of character, civility, a moral/ethical sense fit into our perspective on BDSM? We will explore these concepts and the concepts of prescribed behavior regarding: a) appropriate etiquette, standing for ladies, holding doors & chairs; c) Ladies waiting to be invited to rise, given a hand or smoking only when seated; and d) gender as a definitive line which prescribes behavior. Many of these notions cross over into areas of service and BDSM. Shall we learn from our past rather than reinventing the wheel? (Lecture, discussion)

Meeting Your Mate: What Works

Explore avenues for meeting that special someone. We will explore options regardless of if you are outgoing, socially shy, kinky or poly. We will examine what is not working so you may refocus on what does work. Lets talk about getting your cruise into gear! Catherine will present the results of a survey of 300+ people who faced these same issues. So come and enjoy a good conversation, pick up some new tools, and explore your possibilities to meet the mate of your dreams!

Mental Masterbation: How do you get off?

Begging? What type of begging gets it for you? Does well crafted intellectual reparte get you hot? Power, humiliation, objectification, and brilliant witty begging plus more! Let's find the sizzle, the erotic, and the repulsive to heat up your body through your mind. There will be a demo- trigger warning for some.

Mimicry vs. Mindfulness

We're going to explore some of the progressive trappings of D/s & M/s relationships. We'll examine connective protocol practices and other components for happy relationships. This class will offer several handouts so you can flesh out answers long after the class has ended. We will discuss some stages, possibilities and what may not be obvious. (Powerpoint, discussion, lecture)

More than a Stick: Caning

This class is geared towards building skills and/or learning new ones. Catherine will discuss types of canes, prepping your bottom vs. no prep, "proper" cane strokes, English caning (sets of six), tipping techniques, why varied cane strokes create options, care of your bottom, developing bruises vs cane lines, proper breathing for bottoms and care of your canes. You will learn various grips and how to do the different types of strokes. There will be an animated presentation so you can see the detail in hands and learn advanced strokes and possibilities.

Movement, surrender, service and your body

How do you use your body to serve well? What is your hallmark movement? What did you see once that you would love to emulate but you are not sure how? How do you communicate your surrender physically? How do you create efficiency and surrender? We will explore the physical, emotional and delivery possibilities of service movement. Age agility, personal ability and customized expression expected. It really is show and tell!

Multi-Generational, Multi-Gendered, Multi-Cultural and Multi-Faceted M/s

We are going to focus on the histories, beliefs, values and perspectives moving through a series of questions to examine how generational and cultural differences are possibly impacting and changing M/s practices. We will explore four quadrants. This discussion is not solely for prejudice reduction or conflict resolution. The hope is to further create social expansion and personal possibility.

Mummification: Its a wrap!

Learn what to use, the options of what you can use to create mummification and how to do a full body wrap. We will cover different types of head wraps, body wraps, partials and whole wraps. Learn what to do with them once you have them all wrapped up. Games, temperatures, windows and options galore! (demo, lecture) This class can easily be a hands-on class.

Negotiating Contracts: The Intricate Structure

Learn why contracts work for some and not for others. How do you know when a contract would be a benefit to you? What goes into contracts? Are they for bottoms/submissives only? Learn how to set up contracts that work, that are all inclusive, that address situational oddities and using Contract Advocates. This class will cover the perspectives of a top and a bottom. Catherine will discuss: How does one prepare for negotiation? What responsibilities as a top and a bottom do you each have when you negotiate? What might you bring to the table? What is essential? As well as contract construction and dealing with all the parts a contract might include.(lecture, discussion, handouts, round table)

Negotiations: Your Most Important Tool

Learn how to negotiate well and completely. Learn what is imperative to negotiations, why they are necessary and how to improve your skills and get what you want and need to create a basic scene or an intense long scene. This class is taught from two perspectives: a) learning how to negotiate as a top; and b) how to negotiate as a bottom. This class gets into the nitty gritty of knowing yourself, playing on multiple levels and how to bring your best self to play. This class is also meant for those who have experience and have been negotiating for sometime. It is not a 101 class.(lecture, demo, handouts)

Novice Bottoms

We'll discuss issues relevant to novice bottoms. Some of these issues are: 1) how to integrate service into play; 2) how do I learn what I want and express it; 3) what skills does a bottom need; 4) finding support; 5) bottom responsibilities and safety issues; 6) negotiating well as a bottom; 7) building confidence; and 8) being ok with wanting to be hurt (not harm). This class will also provide sufficient time for an in depth group discussion. We will cover as many subjects as possible, this class is meant to be highly open-ended. (Lecture, roundtable)

Novice Tops

We'll discuss issues relevant to novice tops. Some of these issues are: 1) how to accept service; 2) how do I learn what I want and express it; 3) learning skills; 4) finding support; 5) top responsibilities and safety issues; 6) negotiating well as a top; 7) building confidence; and 8) being ok with wanting to hurt (not harm) bottoms. This class will also provide sufficient time for an in depth group discussion. We will cover as many subjects as possible, this class is meant to be highly open-ended. (Lecture, roundtable)

Options Galore: Intermediate Piercing 201

Ownership: What's the deal?

Why would someone want to own another person? What does ownership mean? Why would someone want to be a slave? What's in it for a slave? Is property allowed to have limits? What are the rules? How long do these relationships last? These questions and many others will be addressed. This is a basic class for those who are just beginning to explore the concepts of D/s(lecture, roundtable)

Personal Responsibility in the Scene (NEW)

Have baggage? What actions help us negotiate being trustworthy, reliable, and good play partners for SM, BDSM, & D/s? How do we create emotional safety? Expectations, ideas of personal respect, and solid skills for the 21st century. This class is designed for those 0-3 years in the scene.

Personal Service: Valets, Lady's Maids and Specialized Service

Catherine will discuss the many intricacies of personalized service. Each position maintains a large skill set, specific duties and assigns. Each position will be covered in detail. She will then open the floor for a discussion regarding the current obligations of those who serve and how these positions fit into a modern life. (Lecture, roundtable)

Philosophies of M/s

This class will discuss love, emotion, authority, command, the realities of M/s, and structures. Be prepared to dig into the subject matter. Exploring philosophies and gaining further possibility and clarity will allow you to construct and maintain healthy, lasting relationships. Bring questions to this exploratorium. We're going to go from A to Z and talk about all related subjects as time will allow.

Physicality: Punching, Kicking and Slapping

This class will cover various techniques used to incorporate kicking, punching, slapping and shoving. Learn how to safely use your hands, arms and feet, where to hit and not to hit and how to hurt without harming. There are many facets to this interesting hands on type of play. (lecture, demo)

Pick up Play: Artist or Novice? (New!)

Is it just negotiating well or a muscle you need to exercise? How much is too much or too little? Is pick up play casual play or edge play? Are you getting your needs met without being the "do me" person or is being the "do me" person just right? Is a hookup different from pick up play? What are the skill sets of people who get pick up play? How are they stacking the deck to have good experiences? Expect a skills share, some worksheets, resources, and a fully interactive class!

Piercing with Confidence: Beginner's Piercing 101

Learn the ABC's of temporary piercing. Where to pierce, where not to pierce, how to create deliberate sensation, environmental concerns, health concerns, parts of the skin, veins, arteries and handling bleeding. Setting your environment and so much more. My goal is that you'll walk out of this class with the ability to pierce.(This class is intended to be hands on. It may be adjusted to be a non-hands on class also.)

Piercing: 101

Learn the A, B, C's of temporary piercing. Where to pierce, where not to pierce, deliberate sensation creation, environmental concerns, health concerns, parts of the skin, veins, arteries and handling bleeding. Setting your environment and more. Get hands on instruction. Everyone will pierce or be pierced. If preferred, hands on portion may be dropped. (lecture, hands on learning, hand outs)

Power Plays

If you think humiliation, begging, and sexual objectification aren't for you- join us in this class. We're going to blow the roof off what you believe these forms of play may be. It's hot, exciting, and erotic and can make sex sizzle due in no small part to its repulsive nature. Explore emotional masochism from the top and the bottom. We're going to unfold humiliation and objectification games from both sides of the coin. Come and enjoy salacious, good begging and other games to put the fun and heat in your SM.

Prejudice, Identity and our future

The Master/slave experience is significantly unique and distinctive. We will examine M/s social and intimate paradigms which support our growth as a community and individually. We will critically examine the potential of commonly used systems that may instigate prejudice. Understanding the gray zone is powerful and a necessity to ensure healthy individual/social identity and relational practices. We will deconstruct and reconstruct!

Protocol Evolution and Evaluation

I want to give a fresh take on protocol to make it useful, workable and completely accessible. We'll delve into measurable criteria, functionality, and maintenance for seasoned protocol. We will explore a few models of known systemic protocol structures and evaluations. This class provides criteria and various systems to evaluate protocol to ensure you are prepared to use protocols as a relationship builder, movement creator and a healthy maintenance tool. (Powerpoint,handouts,interactive,white board)

Protocols and Longevity (NEW!)

Is there a point to protocols after your first 3-5 years? Is there a degree of protocols that are necessary for the longevity of power enriched relationships? When relationships persist, does a lessening or increase of protocols occur? How much is too much? How much is not enough to keep the integrity of the relationships vibrant? Is it enough to know who the boss is? What are we creating as the long term prospect in our relationships via protocols? We are going to explore these questions (and many more) and ideas pertaining to the impact some answers may have for relationships that last.

Public vs Private: Etiquette, Protocol & Manners

This session will address the differences and similarities of etiquette, protocol and manners as they relate to society and BDSM. We will explore historical and current differing perspectives. Protocols in M/s relations, D/s relations and play. We will address party etiquette vs. social etiquette and more.

Reaching for the Soul

How does one prepare the body in order to attain a deeper emotional connection? What can we do in order to reach those places of nuance and spirituality only known to ourselves? What factors do specific types of play (such as blood and breathe play) play in reaching for something more than physical sensation. We will discuss some of the common aspects described by some as "floating", highs, shift in reality, shape shifting, historical perspectives and religious perspectives, as well as blood based notions. More importantly, we will discuss how you get there in concrete terms. (lecture, round table)

Realities of Service

This class discusses the realities of service from both perspectives. We e going to explore what's possible, the difference between reality vs. fantasy, how one acquires seamless skills, manages new or well seasoned servants (insert your title of choice) and makes service a viable reality.

Refining Service Movement

This is a class for submissives/bottoms/slaves who wish to refine your movement, stance and body control. It's also a class for tops to learn how to manage your bottoms and add to your array of possibilities. Your every movement communicates your disposition. Each movement is rift with nuance, discipline and sentiment. Learn the language of your craft and refine your hands, various forms of kneeling, types of crawling, your overall body movements and service. Learn how to be invisible or a show piece and discern when each is appropriate.

Revealing Radiance (new!)

Join this interactive, personally explorative discussion on deliberately created sacrosanct, joyful service. Create personally significant sustenance, breed your motivation, and an acquire an instantly available center of gravity for service which is personal and not formulaic. We are going to explore techniques of mind, body and spirit to foster and maintain your best. Become connected to something so much bigger than yourself and channel this expanse into your service so you can approach the divine. (forms, discussion, lecture)

Role Play and Age Play: The Disneyland of the Mind

Daddys, Mommys, geishas, the casting couch, bosses, chambermaid, and all sorts of theatrical play. Let your world be as diverse as you dare. Learn how to contribute to the authenticity of your games. How do we create anything and everything that our imagination presents to us? We will also delve extensively into age play, a specific type of role play. (lecture, demo, and class participation)

Rope Bondage: The Basics

Rope is a wonderful medium for creating comfortable, stringent and lasting bondage. We'll discuss basic types of rope, the safety aspects of rope play, how to apply rope bondage, and how to customize your rope. The demo will include basic hog ties, wrist and ankle ties and more. (lecture, demo) [can be made into a hands-on class, add :30 minutes to 1 hour]

Rope: The Basics to Japanese Rope Bondage

This class is a hands-on class that takes participants from basic bondage ties (wrists, ankles, chest, etc.) and moved into Japanese rope bondage.By the end of class even if you have never touched rope you should be able to tie anyone down from ankle to wrist and everything in between! (Lecture, demo, handouts)

Safety: A-Z

Catherine will discuss SSC, safewords, negotiations, planning your scenes, preparing for any reaction or emergency, breathing, disease, cleaning toys, lube, anal/vaginal penetration, fisting, sensory deprivation, bondage, whips, flails, quirts, canes, slappers, crops, clips, clamps and party etiquette. This is not a how-to class, it is a class designed to give you a basic understanding of implementation and a very good understanding of the safety concerns regarding all these activities. (Lecture, handout)

Scenes without Toys: Dominance is the Game

How does one set the tone for dominance? How do vocal tones, language selection and movement play into this? What is the difference between control and power? How can you use these distinctions to your advantage to crawl into the mind of your bottom and hold them within a strong space. Learn methodology to create and manipulate power dynamics. Join me and indulge in this most fascinating and intricately created play.

Seamless Service (3 hour)

An introspective, explorative tool box to further develop your inner reserve, responses and resilience. This intensive will cover "the what" and "how to" of: 1) overcoming and getting a new point of view on defensiveness; 2) the PRIME Process; and 3) address service interruptions and the possibilities to lessen those unwelcome incidents for both parties engaged in relationship. Expect to walk out with some new tools, perspectives, and get closer to serving seamlessly! (3 hours, presentation, handouts, interactive)

Seamless Service: For yourself and others (regular time period)

Sometimes defensiveness appears in even great relationships. This class explores options of overcoming and getting a new point of view on defensiveness. We'll explore D/s and M/s and what you choose personally, and tools that assist you to serve seamlessly. We are going to discuss service interruptions and the possibilities to lessen those unwelcome incidents for both tops and bottoms. Expect to walk out with some new tools and perspectives! This class is suitable for everyone regardless of how you identify. We all need to shore up our emotional life and hone our skills to improve our relations.

Service: Buffets, Parties & Gatherings

One of the most useful skills a servant may have is to be able to facilitate a social gathering in their Top's name. One of the most useful skills a Top may have is how to direct a servant for social gatherings. In this class, we will cover: a) how to speak to guests; b) being prepared to care for garments in regards to stains; c) how to prepare for the unknown, accidental occurrences; d) handling allergies & vegens; e) how to set a buffet table; f) the use of serving trays; g) smaller gatherings (say 10) & larger affairs; h) drinks; i) seating arrangements; and j) managing multiple servers. Having these skills will allow you to serve 2 to 200

Serving at a Distance

How can you serve everyday if you travel for your job, live in different cities, or have a separate residence? Catherine will detail how to provide direct service and serve daily in these situations. She\'ll examine how to make positive use of the distance, and how to use time apart to attain devotion, discipline, patience, a love for what you don\'t like, and humility. Bring your experience to the class and let\'s go deeper and find good resources to maintain your relationships and happiness well. (lecture, handout)

Sex, Bondage & Wildness: Needles

Catherine will teach the ABC's of piercing. Don't expect this class to just be a beginner piercing class. We're going to discuss bondage, sex and a whole lot more! This class will include a slide show of advanced piercing, bondage piercing, predicament piercing and the types of scenes that take 6-7 hours to complete. Expect this class to be packed full of options, perversions, and one of a kind creations. So come join us for the A - Z piercing experience!

The Hand that Holds Yours

Are you a Momma, Papa, Auntie or (fill in your special name) who engages littles? Have you attended the classes that focus on littles needs but didn't hear much about how to navigate this for yourself? Join Catherine to the conversation beyond how you need to be responsible or loving or naughty. This class will cover top needs, wants, acceptance, and how to handle less than perfect situations. Be prepared to address when the elephant in the room isn't a stuffed animal! Don't expect the class to be all about difficulties either. This is also about your pleasure, your clarity and who you are in this relationship.

The Three C's: Commitment, Contracts and Collars

How do we pace our M/s and D/s relationships with the goal of a lasting, healthy, durable pairings? What are the options available to use to carve out a path that allows full knowledge, tight commitments, workable contracts, and collars that don't come off.Join Catherine Gross for this exploration of M/s and D/s relational possibilities.

Training: Being the Amplifier

Learn as a top to figure out who you are have in your service. Is this person a boy? A valet? A body guard? A lady's maid? A slave? A submissive? Learning who your bottom is and honing them into the best of who they are with finesse and expertise allows you to have the best service/relationship your bottom has to offer. How to set up a training program which is tailor made for your life, situation and your bottom. (lecture, round table)

Voice Commands: Mother Did know Best

Lady Catherine is not offering this class this year. How to use your voice as a top and a bottom effectively. Learn the paramount power of tone, vibration, command and language use. Learn how modulate your voice, judge by context and create mindfucks by sound alone. The subtly and nuance of voice training can make or break a scene. Learn to create the desired emotion in your top or bottom by simply using your voice. This class is for tops and bottoms alike. (demo, class participation exercises)

Wax Play: More than Drip and Peel

What to use, where to use it, waxing over hair, temperature control, doubling Flames, wax bondage, wax removal options, cavity waxing, etc. Explore the many options of wax. (demo, lecture and handout-this class can be hands-on)

What I wish I knew when I started!

This session will address many questions specific to novices. A few of these questions are: How do I pick playmates? When should I allow someone to push my limits? Should I take online play into real time? Do I have to be 24/7? How do I use safewords? What makes me a "real" top/bottom? (Lecture, roundtable)

When it isn't Switching: Models for other Possibilities

Can a slave be an owner? How does such a person conduct each of their relationships with respect, integrity, and meet their obligations to each? Catherine Gross will address the many questions and specific issues about a time-honored system of "middle management" slaves, junior top systems, and other ideologies that allow a slave to be an owner.She will address these systems that also include individuals who are not switches.

You want to lead?

Let's go far beyond what you might read in Inc., Forbes, or a four minute article regarding the qualities and actuality of leadership. We will talk about what works, what might not work and the bottom line. The circumstances of applying leadership to our various communities and relationships does have challenges divergent from business models. Expect the class to be interactive and get in the conversation queue!